All Life Is Problem Solving: The BACON Method for Tackling Anything
How many problems have you already solved today?
Before you answer, count the small ones. Snooze or get up. What to wear. Which route to take when the usual road is blocked, again. By breakfast you've faced a dozen puzzles and beaten every one. So when the big one shows up, the one that makes your stomach drop, why do we act like we've never done this before?
Philosopher #KarlPopper said it best: "All life is problem solving." At first it sounds bleak. Look closer and it's pure optimism. Popper didn't say life is problems. He said life is problem solving. That one word changes everything.
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A Problem-Solving Episode Born From a Real Problem
This episode of Bacon Bits with Master Happiness didn't just talk about problem solving. It lived it.
Hours before airtime, Marty Jalove's guest backed out. Then the backup backed out. Then the backup's backup. Even his wife, Kristi, couldn't swing it on zero notice. In five years of hosting, Marty had never done a show solo.
His solution was already in the building. Enter Jill, a returning guest who got about ten minutes' notice and said, "Sure." As she put it, eating is overrated.
What followed was a warm, funny, surprisingly deep hour. Marty brought the framework and the stories. Jill brought quick wit, grounded wisdom, and a surprise: she scribbled her own BACON acronym while Marty was talking. Marty's curiosity kept pulling more out of her, and the result felt like two friends thinking out loud over coffee.
The BACON Method for Problem Solving
Every Bacon Bits episode runs on a BACON acronym. This one gives you five moves for tackling almost anything.
B — Break Down the Problem Before the Solution
Marty once taught debate to kids. He'd hand two students a problem, let them argue for ten minutes, then stop them cold: You're arguing the wrong point. Nobody asked what the real problem is.
His favorite example came from his drive to the studio. Every school he passed had a sign: Bus Drivers Needed. The obvious fix is to hire more drivers. The better question is why schools need them year after year after year. Is it wages? The job itself? Fix the symptom and the sign goes right back up.
The takeaway: When you understand the problem, the solution often shows up on its own.
Try this: Write your problem in one sentence you could be wrong about.
Explain it out loud, in detail. Marty asked Jill how a zipper works, and the gaps showed up fast. The part you can't explain is often the real problem.
A — Ask for Better Ideas Than the First One
Your first idea feels fantastic. That's exactly why you should doubt it.
As a leadership coach, Marty doesn't hand out answers. When someone brings him a problem, he asks how they'd solve it, then asks for two more solutions. One might be goofy. The third might be gold. Soon his team walks in with three options and a favorite. As he put it, if it's easier for you to just do it yourself, it has now become your job.
Jill jumped in: You could do that with children too. Where should we eat? Give me three places, then tell me why.
The takeaway: Good ideas grow when you give them competition.
Try this: Treat yourself like a stranger. The cobbler's kids go shoeless because giving advice is easier than taking it. Ask, "What would I tell a friend?" If the answer stings, it's probably right.
C — Consider the Worst Case Before It Happens
Picture a huge boulder blocking your path. Climb it and you might fall. Dig under it and it might collapse. So you work backward: dig a little, build supports, dig a little more. That's a pre-mortem. Imagine the failure, then prevent it.
Here the show got personal. Marty shared that he learned he had cancer through a blunt phone call that felt like a game show: You, sir, have won cancer. Alone with the news, he ran his own pre-mortem. What if this is the end? What am I grateful for? He came out at peace and said something that landed hard: I'm not afraid to die. I just don't want to.
The takeaway: Facing the worst case takes away its power.
Try this: List every reason your plan could fail. Then build one safeguard for each.
O — Observe Patterns and Borrow Answers
Late to work Monday? That's a problem. Late every day? As Marty put it, the problem isn't being late. The problem is the always.
Jill admitted she used to set her clock ten minutes fast. Marty had done the same, until waking up to math stressed him out. Now he gets up an hour before a talk that's ten minutes away, just to make coffee and feed the cat.
Then came his favorite borrowed answer, from the book The Goal by Eliyahu M. Goldratt. A scout leader saw his hiking line stretching apart, so he put the slowest kids in front. Everyone moved together. The same idea later fixed a factory bottleneck.
The takeaway: Someone, somewhere, has already solved something like your problem.
Try this: Ask a kid. When Jill was exhausted, her son asked, "Why don't you just go to bed?" Simple. Obvious. Brilliant.
N — Notice When to Step Back or Step Away
Sometimes the smartest move is to stop pushing.
Marty's 84-year-old friend was renovating a farmhouse, jackhammer and all, until he realized some jobs belonged to a pro. Jill nodded: hiring a painter for her hallway was the best thing she ever did.
Marty's charity, the Brotherhood of the Traveling Pints, builds rolling bars for auction with one rule: you can't buy anything. When a build stalls, he sets it aside, puts out the call for parts, and comes back later. Sometimes he scraps it and starts over.
The takeaway: Walking away isn't quitting. Sometimes it is the solution.
Try this: Stuck? Step back for a walk, a nap, or a night's sleep, like Jill's walk earlier that day.
The Chemistry Behind the Conversation
This hour crackled. Jill claimed all men are great problem solvers who sometimes forget to listen. Marty joked that the three hardest things to say are "I don't know," "I need help," and "Worcestershire sauce." And yes, he told a story about a bacon tree that turned out to be a ham bush.
Between the laughs came real depth. Jill's own BACON (Be flexible, Ask for help, Create new ideas, Only do what you can, Next day will improve) sparked Marty's reflection on "this too shall pass," in the hard times and the good ones.
Marty's gift is that he never steamrolls. He asks, listens, and builds on what his guest offers. Jill's best line near the close: Maybe the problem isn't even in your way. Maybe your mind put it there.
Bacon Bits: Five Key Takeaways
Define before you fix. Solve the real problem, not the symptom.
Demand three ideas. Your first one is the fastest, not the best.
Run a pre-mortem. Name the worst case, then disarm it.
Solve the pattern. If it keeps happening, look for the "always."
Step back on purpose. Rest, delegate, or walk away when needed.
Your Next Move
Smooth seas don't make skillful sailors. The best way out is always through. And every problem you've ever faced, you've beaten. You're still here.
Listen to the full episode of Bacon Bits with Master Happiness wherever you get your podcasts. Share it with someone staring at their own boulder right now. Then sit with Marty's big question:
When a problem lands in your lap, do you rush to solve it, or do you stop and understand it first?
You've got this one too.
All Life Is Problem Solving:
The BACON Method for Tackling Anything
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