Tied Together: Ribbons and Your Happiness

Marty Jalove Master Happiness
Aug 11
6 min read

Updated: 6 days ago

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What if joy isn't found in the big, expensive gestures, but in the small extra touches we almost never notice? A ribbon. A bow. One more squeeze at the end of a hug. That little something that whispers, "You're worth the extra effort."

That's the surprising heart of this episode of Bacon Bits with Master Happiness. Host Marty Jalove sat down with Jill Murray, and together they turned a humble strip of fabric into a full-blown philosophy for living better. Below, you'll get the big lessons, the best moments, and the B.A.C.O.N. framework that ties it all together. Let's dig in.

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Meet Jill Murray and the Ribbon That Refuses to Fade

Jill Murray owns Over the Moon Ribbons (www.overthemoonribbons.com), a business with roots stretching back nearly 30 years. The name traces to a woman who bought up the last stock from a closing ribbon mill and sold it out of a suitcase at flea markets. Jill took over in January, and she's on a mission she describes perfectly: "reviving the ribbon industry one conversation at a time.

Here's where the magic happened. Marty, ever curious, treated ribbons not as decoration but as a symbol of care. Jill matched his energy story for story. Their chemistry was warm, funny, and full of surprising turns, from Native American ribbon skirts to Oscars swag bags. What started as a chat about fabric became a masterclass in finding happiness through effort.

The BACON Framework: Five Lessons Tied Together

Every episode of the show wraps its wisdom in one word: B.A.C.O.N. As Marty says, "It's not about the bacon for chewing, it's the bacon for doing." Here's how the acronym played out through this ribbon-filled conversation.

B — Bind Your Connections

A ribbon takes two loose ends and ties them into something beautiful. That's exactly what strong relationships do.

Marty pointed out that meeting someone is easy. Binding the connection is the work. He didn't just swap cards with Jill at a networking event, he invited her onto the show because he sensed something worth exploring.

Jill's own example was pure gold. She welcomed new neighbors with homemade banana bread, of course wrapped with a ribbon on top. "I thought I should make it look nice," she said. That small touch turned a hello into a real bond.

Takeaway: Connection deepens when you go one step past the introduction.

Try this: Reach out to someone you met recently. Extend the conversation over coffee. Tie that knot a little tighter.

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A — Anticipate the Good

Marty sees ribbon the way he sees people. "If it's this pretty on the outside, I can't wait to see what's inside." He meets everyone expecting something wonderful.

He also made a case for the joy of waiting. We live in a two-hour-delivery world, and we've robbed ourselves of anticipation. His fix? Buy yourself something, wrap it, and don't open it until Friday. Let the excitement build.

Takeaway: Looking forward to something can feel as good as the thing itself.

Try this: Create one small anticipation this week. Plan a treat, then savor the countdown.

C — Celebrate and Cheer

Ribbons announce that a moment matters. Blue ribbons for winners. Bows on gifts. Marty even built handmade family trophies from Goodwill candlesticks, spray-painted gold, then finished with colored ribbons to mark first, second, and third place. Years later, those trophies still sit proudly in his family's homes.

His idea for the workplace? Hand out ribbons of recognition. "I want to give you the blue ribbon this week," he imagined saying to a coworker. Soon everyone's asking, "What do I have to do to earn one?"

Takeaway: Recognition turns effort into energy.

Try this: Celebrate someone by name today. Watch how it lifts them, and you.

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O — Offer One More Touch

This is the soul of the whole episode. A ribbon is never required. It's the extra flourish that transforms ordinary into unforgettable.

Marty shared a "95% rule" he loves: follow the plan 95% of the time, then do something astounding with the last 5%. His signature Hawaiian shirts are that touch, the reason people spot him across a room.

Jill lives it too. She once gave a friend a simple sponge, but topped it with a green bow in her friend's favorite color. "I think she liked the bow better than the sponge," Jill laughed.

Takeaway: The extra touch says, "You're worth it."

Try this: Add one unrequested touch to a task today. A kind note. A warmer greeting. A tighter hug.

N — Nurture Hope with Action

Then there's the yellow ribbon on the old oak tree, a symbol of hope and homecoming. Jill nailed its meaning: it stood for hope and bringing troops safely home.

But Marty pushed further. Hope isn't passive. When life drops you in a hole and no one lowers a ladder, sometimes someone lowers a ribbon instead, and you climb out. Jill's own ribbon of hope? Reviving an entire industry, one radio show and one conversation at a time.

Takeaway: Hope paired with a single action keeps you moving.

Try this: Name one thing you're hoping for. Take one visible step toward it today.

The Chemistry That Made It Sing

Great conversations feel like play, and this one crackled. Marty and Jill riffed on everything from Ralph Lauren's Black Watch plaid, which sold out after one Instagram post, to the purple cow on Jill's logo (a happy nod to Seth Godin's idea that only remarkable things get remarked upon).

There were laughs. Jill joked that ribbon has one big advantage over Marty's beloved bacon: "It doesn't spoil." There were tender moments too, like the frayed red ribbon on Marty's keychain, a keepsake from his father who pinned red to his clothes every day for luck.

What stood out most was Marty's gift for finding gold in the everyday. He took a topic most people overlook and unwrapped meaning, memory, and motivation from it. That's the show's whole promise: happiness hides in plain sight, if you're willing to look.

Bacon Bits: Five Takeaways to Chew On

Small touches carry big meaning. A ribbon, a note, or an extra hug signals genuine care.
Bind your connections on purpose. Don't stop at hello. Follow up and tie the knot tighter.
Anticipation multiplies joy. Let good things wait, and savor the buildup.
Recognition fuels people. A simple "blue ribbon" moment can change someone's whole week.
Hope needs action. Pair every wish with one concrete step forward.

Your Turn: Add One Ribbon Moment Today

Marty left listeners with an invitation worth taping to your mirror: "Become a piece of ribbon." Be the extra effort. Be the finishing touch that makes people feel valued.

So here's your question to carry into the week: What's one ribbon moment you can add to your life today? Tie it, share it, and let it lift someone.

Ready for the full conversation? Listen to Bacon Bits with Master Happiness wherever you catch your podcasts, share this episode with someone who deserves an extra touch, and check out Jill's work at www.overthemoonribbons.com. One small ribbon of effort just might tie your whole day together.

Tied Together: Ribbons and Your Happiness

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Marty Jalove of Master Happiness is a Company Coach, Business Consultant, and Marketing Strategist that helps small businesses, teams, and individuals find focus, feel fulfilled, and have fun. He helps businesses struggling with communication issues between co-owners, staff, and customers grow a happier and healthier business.

Master Happiness stresses the importance of realistic goal setting, empowerment, and accountability in order to encourage employee engagement and retention. The winning concentration is simple: Happy Employees attract Happy Customers and Happy Customers come back with Friends.

Want to learn more about bringing more happiness into your workplace and life? Contact Master Happiness at www.MasterHappiness.com or www.WhatsYourBacon.com