Remember when making friends was as simple as sharing a swing set? You’d ask, "Do you like blue?" They’d say, "Yes!" And boom, best friends for life. As Marty pointed out, we were thrust into environments like school and neighborhoods where proximity did all the heavy lifting. We had ten best friends because we saw them every single day. Fast forward to adulthood. We have colleagues, gym buddies, and other parents at drop-off, but the glue of proximity isn't as strong. We

For a stylist, this means remembering a client's stories, their family, and their preferences. It’s about creating a safe space where clients feel heard and valued. As Bruce noted, hairstylists often hear things people don't tell anyone else. That level of trust isn't accidental; it’s earned. This principle is universal. Do you remember the details about your clients? Do they see you as a partner or just a transaction?

A few years ago, a group of my neighbors were gathered in my backyard for laughter, libations, and to toss scrap wood into a fire pit....